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Im a 20 year old male and i just had sex for the first time. However i was unable to orgasm through both oral and vaginal sex. I was wondering what the reason was. I also have a habit of masturbating 1-2 times per day, could this be a possible reason or is it a medical problem?
  Posted by uuoomkin12 in Doctor category on 31 Jan 2010
 
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Hi,
At your age, and the fact that you were doing it for the first time, the most likely cause for the same would be Performance Anxiety.
Regular masturbation is not generally a factor in a lack of orgasm, though it may sometimes lead to premature ejaculation.
Relaxing and enjoying the entire act and not worrying just about the penetration, PLUS  including a lot of foreplay would definitely put you at ease, and help you get better in having orgasm.
If the problem persists, try talking to a urologist, psychologist or sex therapist,
Warm regards
 
  Dr. Alice Scarb -- Answered on 01 Feb 2010, After 1 days
 
 
 
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